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[Skyisthelimit 0]

Hey Leute,

Bin jetzt schon 1,5 Jahre dabei und ich hab auch mal fuer RSD Nation so ne kleine summary von total chode zu naja so ordentlich aufgeschrieben ;)

Ich weiss nur, dass ich damals zu meiner Chodezeit so etwas sehr sehr geschaetzt haette und vielleicht koennen das ja hier ein paar der Juengeren gebrauchen

so gesagt als kleines Dankeschoen back an die Community. Stehlt halt ziemlich detailliert meine ganze Entwicklung und essentielle Schritte drin um dahin zu

kommen wo ich bin.

Ist leider in Englisch, aber ich denke mal die Bremer hier koennen jawohl noch ein bischen Englisch lesen :P

Enjoy it!

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Hey guys,

I am writing this thread for you. I have used a lot of help throughout my journey and even though I have turned more selfish and started cutting my time down for anything that does not help me I always

swore to myself that I will give back to the young guys when I "made" it.

Made it is very subjective but this thread is for all the young guys starting out. For me it was insanely confusing even with the help of RSD and I'd love to have read a thread like this!:)

Right now in terms of my own goals, I'd say I've made it 50%. My ambitions grew a lot higher throughout the journey and they probably will again, the journey never ends ;)

I remember how my goal was first to just be accepted socially by some girls, then make out with them and finally get laid and when you have not done any of those things they are very overwhelming

and seem far out of reality. After you did it, it all comes into perspective and it becomes like just "another time".

To me: Im 19 year olds, I started this with 17, I did take a bootcamp. I started as a unkissed virgin with maybe 2 or 3 times in my life were I hung out with girls, as to say with practically no experience.

Now I have had quite a lot kissing in my life and a few, not much, but a few times sex ;) Oh and my cold approach is handled really well. I can get numbers and pulling is not to far out of reality too.

So yea as I said this thread is for young guys like me who dunno where the fuck to start and what the fuck to do, and who have nobody gone through this who they know. And I do think starting out as a

virgin is harder than the other way for pu :P

Here is my story :)

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Before PU, school times :)

Okay I had practically no experience with girls when I heard of PU for the first time. I guess I was around 16/17 when I read the game. At this point my only goal was to be "socially accepted" by the cool people and

I had managed to hang out with some cool guys. Didn't help my game at all though ;)

With 17 I went to the USA for half a year as an exchange student. This was a confidence booster definitely. There i was kinda "popular" but really by luck. It was cool and I had some experiences with girls, first "kinda date"

oh and the first girl "I was talking too". Oh and one time I skipped school with some girls to watch a movie, pretty cool too :)Wow memories really are the best :) Okay some cool experiences but no kissing, and no real sexuality haha

I have to say though, I had already read selfhelp material in the US and purelated stuff, and I did watch a journal and try to become more of a man and push myself!

When I came back to germany is where my PU life started. I got advised from Sir Konstantine from some random pu forum to RSD for which I owe him a thousand times!!! Ill hope ill see him in real life someday!:) Well I came back from the USA pumped up, because of my little popularity and girls talking to me, but then it all vanished! My school was pretty chode, but I had quite a few problems with guys there, girls werent as open as in the USA and I kinda reverted back to my chodeness!

I decided this is it fuck it, ill either take life by the hand and ill do pu or ill die ( metaphorically ;) ).

Start of the PU times, Pre Bootcamp, First Numbers, First KC

Okay my first day of PU I decided to go streeting and do at least 10 sets. Haha funny enough my mentor/good friend I didnt know he would be, advised me to only do 5 for my first day which was smart. Well I went into the city and did about 2 maybe 3 sets asking for the time or something like that. Massive socially uncomfortable!:) Well, I think this was the only day I ever lied to myself I did more sets than I said but haha I was young :)

Well, the next times I went out with Lairguys . My fantasy of "pickupgurus" was immediately destroyed. The first persons I had contact with were further behind in the material than me. My 3rd time I think I went out though with a guy who had some balls and together we pushed me in my first "real sets". I used the who lies more opener - so stereotypical ^^:D :D. This was already a huge success for me.

Then it was time for my first clubsarging. It was cool, I really pushed myself and even got a msn adress and chatted with the girl-Cool!:) I had a first coaching with my upcoming mentor/goodpufriend which helped me a lot. I did 5 good sets that day and managed to get 2 numbers from young girls. The 5th was a blowout but for the first time of my life, after going direct [ streetgame that is ;) ] I saw the raw attraction in a girls eyes. It was a blowout but that was the first time my beast showed through to in a girls eye which was a great motivator :)

I kept streeting, with some harder days. One day I did 7 sets, no outcome, kinda blowouts. It felt shit, I was pissed. In the club onetime it was "really on" with a girl for the first time. I dealt with a shittest from the bouncer, she saw it, I was Nimbussing :) for the first time, I lead her to the dancefloor not knowing what I was doing, danced with her, even had the urge to kiss her. Later we sat down. She kinda let me smell her boobies/neck haha nice. She gave me phonenumber and really wanted to talk to me. Great success. I was very nervous on the phone later cause of no experience and blew it but its okay:)

Oh by the way I was also working out and working on my style meanwhile and my centeredness. never routines. this is why i think I succeded more thanothers in this game also:)common sense huh :D

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Well, one night, I got my first kissclose in a club. It was actually a relatively hot ( especially for myself then ) 21 or so year old blonde. My friend opened acting as if he spoke english, I came in, just chilled out. Gamed her up a bit, she wanted to drink, we went to drink sth. Then I (!) lead on the dancefloor. Dancing with her, and then JUST DID IT. And it worked - me making out. I laughed, I wasnt really turned on, but I had the greatest nimbus ever because of my success!!! :) I even made out with her fat friend and it was kinda a makeout orgy lol [ first makeout hahaha :D :D :) ]

I had decided I would do bootcamp with Alex!. It was scheduled for Geneva but I really wanted it so we went there. Before Bootcamp I did a 7 day challenge due to me having more time in vacations. I had some cool success, facebook closed ( later nced ) a pretty hot girl, id even like to fuck today, but im working unsuccesfully on it :) And I meet a very cute girl who was very cool and we connected. We were in the set, my friend was leading. I got bored cause she was unreceptive. Then my friend wanted to go on the top of a building, I didnt want to cause I was ego hurt by the non attention of the girls! The one girl took my arm though and pulled me with them:) My friend called and said, try to isolate and kc her! Cool idea, I did it. No kC but ridiculous attraction. Had a crush on the girl afterwards and she on me too:) but after my vacations we never saw each other again !

Bootcamp with Alex, Geneva, June 2010

omg there really should be save tab for the posts in here. I lost the part of this post, Ill just post the link to my testimonial, Don't feel like writing this again sry -.-'

After Bootcamp Times, More Makeouts More Success

I was on vacations after bootcamp. I told my buddy about PU and my bootcamp and it was very frightening and scary for me because of fear of rejection but it was worth it and he still was friend with me haha.

On my vacations at the beach I had pretty insane nimbussing going on. I had 5 make outs and 2 more simple kcs in 3 days haha one was a girl I liked, I loved that I liked and got her, and anothere one a 23 year old not bad looking blonde ;)

I only got positive experiences at that time with girls, lots of facebooks :) Some more dates:)

Back To Germany, Hard Times, More successes,

Back In germany I was after bootcamp and one month sarging on a whole nother level. I got all the girls at my school attracted including the one girl that was my dreamgirl haha. She was gaming me hard, my reality was fucked in a positive way. Guys tried to tool me that time. Imagine the girls love you, guys tool you at the same time, for a young guy. I crumbled under this, lost my frame, my initiative. I wish I could go back now and kill those guys, but it is what it is and I had to learn. Make a mistake one time, never again! :/:(

Over the next months I started "loosing" the girls at my school. I did not manage honestly to get one date/nc out of this, because I was so apologetic and afraid of rejection at school. Actually ridiculous, but hey, I didn't know better that time. Also my dreamgirl forgot about me.

I had hard times again, when I realised I was loosing in school again. Identity crisis, wtf is happening. Why are the guys treating me like that. I should have known they were jealous and non abundanced tools and I should have just done my thing,........but it's okay......My game got better meanwhile, did more nightgame sarging. I started having regular contact with my first mentor then friend PA. I learned the unapologetic S and A game from him, he learned the crazy Alex talk BS shit from me. One night in Hamburg it was insane. We had the best night ever, I directed a very hot blonde, 19yearsold. She was acting, she was all over me, said she would fall in love with me, if she hadnt had a boyfriend. I pushed it to the max, tried kc, denied her number haha. Nimbussing :) On facebook later I burned it but still great reference. On FB she couldnt believe i added her:) great for my selfesteem!:)

I planned 2 weeks Berlin with my Mentor. We had so much stuff set up against us, our driver flaked us, we had only problems. We had to sleep with our baggage at the central station and then get up again and find a way to get there. We made it. The first day was hard, my mentor didn't like were we slept, it was small and the guy, well, it was a little wierd ^^ We had problems and problems again but one time at the day a friend called us and said we could sleep at his house. From there on it was insane.

Gaming times in Berlin, my blueprint for how pickup should look like. beasting, amazing clubs, 24/7 pickup, heaven :) We had like the most fun of our lives, at least for me it felt like that. Freedom....Adventures.....

Back to Germany...it sucked. I hated it. My friend too. I dunno, maybe we should have moved out at that time and done pu 24/7. But the chance is over now, I thinkt hat would have been one of the coolest turning points in my life, but it is what it is...

Germany well, worse again....dunno what happened between Berlin and winter, but if I dont remember I guess not much. My grades were getting worse and I spent more time for school. life sucked haha.

One day a girl i facebook closed and tried to meet up, wrote me on fb. we meet up and this time for real!:)

I was so excited, my first girl pulled. I was nervous as hell, what now, how to escalate, sex wtf, how experienced is she?!? A real manning up day for me. I did it and it was a great experience. Lead her to my place, we chilled smooked hookah, tried to kiss her, resistance, haha I tired again, smoking hookah to her mouth ( sneaky sneaky ;) ) and it worked out. Haha got to her boobs/ass ( amazing woop woop ^^ ) even to her pussy. I saw for the first time of my life how a girl moaned lol. I was amazed at the potential haha

Shit turned worse then. I was insecure. Talking about getting my dick out bla, but not doing it. She got insecure and defensive. I got annoyed. She went away, on facebook we dissed each other, she said very mean things and my ego got very bruised :D.

From this point I decided, I will get the sex thing handled and own this even more:)

Getting devirginised- ;)

I knew it was only a matter of time for me to pull again. As Brad said, once you have done sth, trust you can do it again ;)

Well, I hated that I was unexperienced in sex but talking to very hot girls. My cold approach got ofc better throughout the time from bootcamp!!! I practised most of the time 2-4 times a week, also more clubs now. One night I talked to this one girl I mentioned I nced 6 months ago. We talked, she loved me, would be easy to pull but I didnt know shit about sex, and felt insecure. Hated it :...

I read the sexgod method then and decided fuck it GO ALL IN.

I went all in with this girl I talked about. Had some girls on the line. Pulled that girl home, after I "flaked" her haha. Back at mine, we watch TV. It's hot in here, makeout ensues :) I do pushpull, makeout a little, back off, chill makeout again, escalating more to boobs ass :) Then the moment of glory comes: I MAN THE FUCK UP, tell her to get up, and then lead her to my bed. Shes like nono to soon but we can do a handjob [ LOL ;) ] and that is the time I got my first handjob! Liked it!:) Girl was a good fuck [ handjob aehhh i mean :D ] too. I saw her during the next couple of times, got my first blowjob ( now that was amazing, the other girl who blew me just sucked, thanks god for that girl, that was just fkkkkkkkiiiignngngngnng goood :) ).

Guess what happened? I thought, wow this girl looks amazing, way better than I thought my first girl would look like, she is really chill to hang around, well....I got lazy and oneitis :) Guess what happened: I get flaked 3 times in a row....wow. The girl really liked me though we kept long contact and she felt bad, but mygame was not pimp, it was bitch and so ... contact broke off :)

Meanwhile my game got better, I got in the hang of pulling. Pulled more girls, but I regressed. Pulled a girl, I now know is a virgin. She was fucking insecure and didnt want to kc. That made me insecure and lead to slower escalation, i thought i was to agressive. Fcken bitch, shge should have told me she was unexperienced as shit, I lost probably 2-3 girls because of that "WRONG" reference.....stupid whore, fuck I hate her now, I just realised iTS ALL EHR FUKCING FAULT omg hahaha.....nahh...shit happens and you gotta deal with it...but fuck that girl made me not escalate hard, and I lost girls because of her....really...fuck that bitch....Im seeing her right now too, wow the next time I see her that virgin is getting rapefucked!

I pulled like 4 girls back home, but because I thought I was too agressive, because that girl wasn't complying to my kc-attempt, I only kced them no further escalation :/ suks...but ahh......more girls to come I guess :/

Well I had a Alex Freetour which was great for motivating me and he gave me great advice :) I tried to get 1on1 phone coaching with him and was excited cause he complied, but didnt work out in the end :/ Ill really try to intern one day with those guys, would be fken cool :) [ AHHHH I REALLY JUST REALISE NOW, THAT I PULLED SOME HOT GIRLS AND ONLY KCED BECAUSE THAT VIRGIN BITCH MADE ME THINK MY ESCALATION WAS TO) FATS I HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE HATE I JUST FUCKING

HATE HER THAT BITCH IS S O GETTING RAPE FUCKED OMG ]

My game was pretty cool now, some real hotties nced, one kclosed, a estonian girl, yacht style ala Brad, just leading the shit out of cool to see progress :)

Then it was owning times: Vacations - saved up for 1 week in amsterdam. I got sick the last 3 days due to not good living standards plus 4 days STREETING and NIGHTGAME fucking beasting.

Well Amsterdam I pushed myself a lot. Did lots of sets, i was ON MY OWN the first days and pushed through it. some hottie ncs, cool stuff. Then it happened:

I was out with my local rsd wing Mauro.....We had great fun/success, including instant date with HOT german girls woo woo :) and he actually kced a girl with a gf.....well we both pulled them to their 5 star parkhotel ( nice :) ) and well, fucked them there....Haha thats like the night in a nutshell, actually it was a lot more fucked up and crazy than this but yea thats the nice version :) Well first! I was no virgin anymore. Actually I never had those typical problems of fucking up during sex or whatever. The girl blew awfully though ahah but iwas very enjoyable :) Well also what happened that night again made me question humanity again, just fucked up things happening.

Actually me getting devirginised was very emotional for me aftyer all that struggle. I was going back to my hostel at 8 AM, walking alone, getting sick and at one point I just cried cause my reality was so fucked....Well.....This stuff really hardens one up....

In amsterdam I was sick. A little of beasting but nothing great anymore, cause I was sick. We had a great friend there, he was the best person ever and took us to all the clubs :)

Back to germany....Well times had changed. no virgin anymore:) Now I wanted to get serious. I think I even pulled a hottie back, but didnt fuck her or anything? dont ask me why, that amsterdam night I waas rly drunk and the girl wanted to fuck me hard, I think I had lost touch of my innerbeast AFTER THAT FUCKING VIRGIN BEAST MADE ME THINK ESCALATION WAS WIER D FUCK HER....sry. i just realise i hate that bitch now.....O.....M.....F..>>>>>G

escalation is the holy grail, its nhever ever to slow hahaha.

Well I set myself the goal to be able to pull day2s from streetgame and I got really good at streetgame, like getting the number, talking to girl, getting her back to my place. Also proud of me having figured that out!:) Well pulled a girl, due to me thinking beastmode sucks ( OMG I wish I was never social conditioned, HEIL BEASTMODE :) ) it took me 3 nights and getting drunk to fuck and devirginise that bitch ( this time her devirginise haha )...I gotta admit that girl is on my lower scale and wtihout being drunk she would have not turned me on that much....But hey, something has to give, especially when I am a pussy and don;'t fuck the hotties at my place lol cause of thinking, to take it slow...I had pretty hot girls in my room haha ^^

Well....Thats it now....I said I am only 50 % there. I want the 5 star, model girls. I want the girls which just make your mouth fall off, nothing less. And that is a different journey. But Im having success, 2 very very high quality girls, didnt pull them but meet up with them. They always seem to have a boyfriend, but it is alright, does not matter, I ahd to figure out. Reality is very fucked up also, it is very fucked up what attracts those girls. I would say younger and good 4 star looking girls are different than "stunner girls". You kinda have to be fucking shocking to get the very high quality girls. But the cool thing is they have selfesteem and are not insecure , the flipside is I have to get used to that selfesteem, sometimes my reality crumbles :)

Well this leads to me being my mission experiencing more and more and learning to get those stunners with my upcoming gangsta game which will be more serious, more beast and more radically honest. For the other girls I think Alex having a lot of fun selfamusing works just great, better than gangsta game even maybe :) Im excited for my reality getting fucked soon again to get those stunners. Also it gets more lonely on the top. You really have to endure shocking stuff and replace beliefs and it gets lonely because most people don't believe the same stuff as you anymore, you have to think without other people....All girls are really though clueless on what is going on, they just get a lot of social validation and everybdy buys into it.

The journey goes on for me. I really hope some young guys are going to read this article, maybe virgins, and I sincerely hope, this can act as a reallife example and as a motvation and guidemap for those guys. The only thing that matters is do decide that you don't quit. That's it, you swear this one time to yourself, then the game is already over ;)

I would really apreciate if those guys would post a comment if this was cool for them, just to see if I did not waste my time hihi ;P

Cheers

and remember

Sky Is the limit ;)

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Vielen Dank an Der Stelle

An Phil der mir immer ein treuer Wing war und so einiges mit mir durchgemacht hat!:)

An Zephyros der mich, als ich juenger war erfolgreich gecoacht hat!:)

An PA mit dem ich sehr..."amuesante" Herbstferien verbracht hab und der mir allgemein mein Leben sehr bereichert hat!:) ( auch pumaessig:) )

Auch an alle anderen PU-persoenlichkeiten die mir mein PU leben erfolgriech bereichert haben wie

Ziod, Vit90, Alexj, Mannish, Hanni, Christian, hihi und neuerdings auch christoph:) hoffe hab niemanden vergessen achso und Darkwarrior natuerlich!:)

Und zu aller letzt vielen Dank an die ganzen HBs!

Ohne euch waere ich immer noch ein Chode!:)

Juli 23, 2011 bearbeitet von Skyisthelimit

[Silan 0]

Find den Text sehr angenehm zu lesen...

sehe gemeinsamkeiten mit meiner entwicklung, ganz besonders macht mir immernoch meine zum 2ten mal neugebildete Eskalationshemmung zu schaffen.

Deine Frustrationsanfälle kann ich auch nachvollziehen, war bei mir teilweise nicht anders (und ich hab gerade wieder so eine Situation bewältigt).

Nur würd ich nicht so herablassend über das Mädchen, das dich in deiner Entwicklung zurückgeworfen hat, reden. Klar, das war scheisse für dich, aber sie is auch nur n Mensch, vllt. hat sie auch nicht das dementsprechende Selbstvertrauen. Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me (:.

Viel glück noch in deiner weiteren Entwicklung!

[deathinc 6]

haha deathinc ist hier danke dir ....

wünsche dir viel erfolg weiter ...ich rufe dich in die tagen und erzähle meine lustige fick geschichten

besuch hier in hannover können was austauschen..

PS: avoid alcohol ..u will learn much faster in the field....

Juli 25, 2011 bearbeitet von deathinc

[Skyisthelimit 0]

wünsche dir viel erfolg weiter ...ich rufe dich in die tagen und erzähle meine lustige fick geschichten :-)

hahahah nice deathinc ! :)

Ich bin leider im ausland grade, nehm deswegen nicht ab. Wegen der Free tour mit Jeffy - Wenn Alex auch dabei ist dann komm ich aufjeden fall mit

.. . ich weiss nicht so wirklich ob ich mir jeffy als vorbild nehmen will :)