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[NagaZui 13]

Advice to Young Men from an Old Man

1. Don’t pick on the weak. It’s immoral. Don’t antagonize the strong without cause, its stupid.

2. Don’t hate women. It’s a waste of time

3. Invest in yourself. Material things come to those that have self actualized.

4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose.

5. As a former Marine, take it from me. Don’t join the military, unless you want to risk getting your balls blown off to secure other people’s economic or political interests.

6. If something has a direct benefit to an individual or a class of people, and a theoretical, abstract, or amorphous benefit to everybody else, realize that the proponent’s intentions are to benefit the former, not the latter, no matter what bullshit they try to feed you.

7. Don’t be a Republican. They are self-dealing crooks with no sense of honor or patriotism to their fellow citizens. If you must be a Republican, don’t be a “conservative.” They are whining, bitching, complaining, simple-minded self-righteous idiots who think they’re perpetual victims. Listen to talk radio for a while, you’ll see what I mean.

8. Don’t take proffered advice without a critical analysis. 90% of all advice is intended to benefit the proponent, not the recipient. Actually, the number is probably closer to 97%, but I don’t want to come off as cynical.

9. You’ll spend your entire life listening to people tell you how much you owe them. You don’t owe the vast majority of people shit.

10. Don’t undermine your fellow young men. Mentor the young men that come after you. Society recognizes that you have the potential to be the most power force in society. It scares them. Society does not find young men sympathetic. They are afraid of you, both individually and collectively. Law enforcement’s primary purpose is to suppress you.

11. As a young man, you’re on your own. Society divides and conquers. Unlike women who have advocates looking out for them (NOW, Women’s Study Departments, government, non-profit organizations, political advocacy groups) almost no one is looking out for you.

12. Young men provide the genius and muscle by which our society thrives. Look at the Silicone Valley. By in large, it was not old men or women that created the revolution we live. Realize that society steals your contributions, secures it with our intellectual property laws, and then takes credit and the rewards where none is due.

13. Know that few people have your best interests at heart. Your mother does. Your father probably does (if he stuck around). Your siblings are on your side. Everybody else worries about themselves.

14. Don’t be afraid to tell people to “Fuck off” when need be. It is an important skill to acquire. As they say, speak your piece, even if your voice shakes.

15. Acquire empathy, good interpersonal skills, and confidence. Learn to read body language and non-verbal communication. Don’t just concentrate on your vocational or technical skills, or you’ll find your wife fucking somebody else.

16. Keep fit.

17. Don’t speak ill of your wife/girlfriend. Back her up against the world, even if she’s wrong. She should know that you have her back. When she needs your help, give it. She should know that you’ll take her part.

18. Don’t cheat on your wife/girlfriend. If you must cheat, don’t humiliate her. Don’t risk having your transgressions come back to her or her friends. Don’t do it where you live. Don’t do it with people in your social circle. Don’t shit in your own back yard.

19. If your girlfriend doesn’t make you feel good about yourself and bring joy to your life, fire her. That’s what girlfriends are for.

20. Don’t bother with “emotional affairs.” They are just a vehicle for women to flirt and have someone make them feel good about themselves. That’s the part of a relationship they want. For you it is a lot of work and investment in time. If they are having an emotional affair with you, they’re probably fucking someone else.

21. Becoming a woman’s friend and confidant is not going to get you into an intimate relationship. If you haven’t gotten the girl within a reasonably short period of time, chances are you won’t ever get her. She’ll end up confiding to you about the sexual adventures she’s having with someone else.

22. Have and nurture friendships with women.

23. Realize that love is a numbers game. Guys fall in love easily. You’re going to see some girl and feel like you’ll die if you don’t get her. If she rejects you, move on to the next one. It’s her loss.

24. Don’t be an internet troll. Got out and live life. There is not a cadre of beautiful women advertising on Craigslist to have NSA sex with you. Beautiful women don’t need to advertise. The websites that advertise with attractive women’s photos and claims of loneliness are baloney. All they want is your money and your personal information so that they can market to you. The posts on Craigslist by young “women” seeking NSA sex, and asking for a picture are just a bunch of gay troll pic collectors. This is especially true if the post uses common gay lexicon like “hole” as in “fuck my hole” or seeks “masculine” men, or uses the word cock (except in the context of “Don’t send a cock shot.”) There are women on Craigslist. They are easily recognizable by their 2-5 paragraph postings. Most are in their 30's or older.

25. When you become a man in full, know that people will get in your way. People who are attracted to you will somehow manage to step in your path. Gay guys will give you “the look.” Old people will somehow stumble in front of you at the worst time. Don’t get frustrated. Just step aside and go about your business. Know that these are passive aggressive methods to get you to acknowledge their existence.

26. Don’t gay bash. Don’t mentally or physically abuse people because of who they are, or how they present themselves. It’s none of your business to try to intimidate people into conformity.

27. If your gay, admit it to yourself, your parents, your friends and society at large. Be prepared to get harassed. See rule 14. If someone threatens you or assaults you, call the cops. Have them arrested. You have no obligation to self sacrifice because of who you are. As a gay person, you’ll have more social freedom than straight men. Use it to protect yourself. Be prepared to get out of Dodge if your orientation makes your life unbearable. Move to San Francisco, New York, Atlanta, or New Orleans. You’ll find a welcoming community there.

28. Don’t be a poser. Avoid being one of those dudes who puts a surfboard on top of their car, but never surfs, or a dude with a powder coated fixed gear bike and a messenger bag, but was never a messenger. Live the life. Earn your bona fides.

29. Don’t believe the crap about the patriarchy. More women are accepted and attend college. More degrees are awarded to women than men. Women outlive men. More men commit suicide. Men are twice as likely to be victims of violence, including murder. If you consider sexual assaults in prisons, twice as many men are raped as women (society thinks prison rape is funny). The streets are littered with homeless men, sprinkled with a few homeless women. Statically, women are happier than men. The myth that girls are being cheated by are educational system is belied by the fact that schools are bastions of femininity, mostly run by and taught by women. Girls outperform boys in school. It is the boys in school getting fucked over, and prescribed ritalin for being boys. Real wages for men are falling, while real wages for women are rising. Just because someone says something enough times, doesn’t make it true. You have nothing to feel guilty about.

30. Remember, 97% of all advice is worthless. Take what you can use, and trash the rest.

vicioustwist

san francisco

02-15-07

[Boyplay 30]

Gefällt mir ;)

[ChillChamp 30]

Enthält sehr viel Wahres. Den letzten Punkt finde ich besonders wichtig!

[Gast das_huhn]

ich auch. aber man sollte unterscheiden zwischen sachen die einem geraten werden und man denkt, das brauch ich nicht und sachen die einem geraten werden, eigentlich gute ratschläge sind und man sie aus angst, sie umzusetzen, in den wind schlägt bzw nicht umsetzt.

was ich nicht mag is "4. Get in a fistfight, even if you are going to lose." ich les sowas nicht zum ersten mal in so einer art text.

ich meine, sicher, ich könnte es jetzt ohne groß drüber nachzudenken in den wind schlagen, aber irgendwas wird sich der autor ja dabei gedacht haben. und was sich die leute bei solchen ratschlägen denken is mir _absolut_ schleierhaft. was hab ich fürs leben davon, wenn ich in nem faustkampf verwickelt bin, bei dem ich verliere?

sowas endet meiner meinung nach viel zu oft in viel zu bösen verletzungen, als das es irgendeine erfahrung wert ist. und vier wochen aus der schnabeltasse trinken is ein hoher preis für einen ratschlag, den mir irgendjemand aus dem internet gegeben hat, weil mir, seiner ansicht nach, die erfahrung nützen könnte.

[aarf 0]

Nun, in eine Kampfsituation zu geraten ist sicherlich eine Situation, die es wert ist, zu erleben.

Du kannst aber auch Kampfsport betreiben und Sparring machen.

Klar, da ist nicht der krasse Adrenalinkick da, den du beim Straßenkampf hast, aber doch, ein Kick ist dabei.

Ich würde so oder so jedem raten, zumindest einmal ein Probetraining in einem Kickbox- oder Muay Thai (Thaiboxen)-Verein zu machen.

Noch vor einem halben Jahr war ich der Ansicht, dass man bescheuert sein muss, sich freiwillig zusammenzuhauen, aber ich habe mir gesagt: "Das Eine Probetraining musst du machen.".

Und nun mache ich Kampfsport und es ist einfach nur geil! (Mache derzeit Kickboxen, aber mit vielen Muay Thai-Elementen).

Soviel zum "fistfight".

Gruß,

[wg_lift 1]

Advice to Young Men from an Old Man

http://forum.progressive-seduction.com/ind...?showtopic=8499

Besonders gut zum PU-Thema passt zB.: "Don't waste your time on jealousy. Sometimes you're ahead,

sometimes you're behind. The race is long and, in the end, it's only with yourself."

Jetzt,

Lift

[Gast das_huhn]

ich hab auch nochmal was gefunden, hoffe es is okay wenn ich das hier poste, wollte keinen extra-thread machen. is aber eher auf lustig gemacht :D, siehe schon erster punkt ^^

THE OFFICIAL CODE OF MALE CONDUCT

1. Thou shall not rent the movie Chocolat.

2. Under no circumstances may 2 men share an umbrella.

3. Any man who brings a camera to a bachelor party may be legally beaten and killed by his fellow partygoers.

4. Unless he murdered someone in your immediate family, you must bail a friend out of jail within 12 hours.

5. You may exaggerate any anecdote told in a bar by 50 percent without recrimination; beyond that, anyone within earshot is allowed to call bullshit. (Exception: When trying to pick up a girl, the allowable exaggeration rate rises to 400 percent)

6. If you've known a guy for more than 24 hours, his sister is off-limits forever.

7. The maximum amount of time you have to wait for another guy who's running late is 5 minutes. For a girl, you are required to wait 10 minutes for every point of hotness she scores on the classic 1-10 scale.

8. Bitching about the brand of free beer in a buddies refrigerator is forbidden. You may gripe if the temperature is unsuitable

9. No man is ever required to buy a birthday present for another man. In fact, even remembering a friends birthday is strictly optional.

10. Agreeing to distract the ugly friend of a hot babe your buddy is trying to hook up with is your legal duty. Should you get carried away with your good deed and end up having sex with the beast, your pal is forbidden to speak of it, even at your bachelor party.

11. Before dating a buddy's ex, you are required to ask his permission and he, in return is required to grant it.

12. Women who claim they "love to watch sports" must be treated as spies until they demonstrate knowledge of the game and, more importantly, the ability to pick a buffalo wing clean.

13. If a man's zipper is down, that's his problem-you didn't see nothin'.

14. The universal compensation for buddies who help you move is beer.

15. (Gas Warfare Act) you may flatulate in front of a woman only after you've brought her to climax. But if you trap her head under the covers (Dutch Oven) for the purpose of flatulent entertainment, she's officially your girlfriend.

16. It is permissible to consume a fruity chick drink only when you're sunning on a tropical beach... and it's delivered by a topless supermodel and it's free.

17. Unless you're in prison, never fight naked.

18. A man in the company of a hot, suggestively dressed woman must remain sober enough to fight.

19. If a buddy is outnumbered, out manned, or too drunk to fight, you must jump into the fight. Exception: If within the last 24 hours his actions have caused you to think, "What this guy needs is a good ass-whoopin", then you may sit back and enjoy.

20. Phrases that may NOT be uttered to another man while weight lifting: "Yeah, baby, push it!" "C'mon, give me one more! Harder!" "Another set and we can hit the showers." " Nice ass, are you a Sagittarius?"

21. Never hesitate to reach for the last beer or the last slice of pizza, but not both. That's just plain mean.

22. Never talk to a man in the bathroom unless you're on equal footing: either both urinating or both waiting in line. In all other situations, a nod is all the conversation you need.

23. If a buddy is already singing along to a song in the car, you may not join him...too gay.

24. Before allowing drunken friend to cheat on his girl, you must attempt one intervention. If he is able to get on his feet, look you in the eye, and deliver a "F@ck OFF!" You are absolved of your of responsibility.

25. The morning after you and a babe who was formerly "just a friend" have carnal, drunken monkey sex, the fact that you're feeling weird and guilty is no reason not to nail her again before the discussion about what a big mistake it was.

Quelle: Anthony Berger - Advanced Macking

[spearhead 5]

Den "old man" find ich sau cool.

Was er sagt ist so wahr!

[Shao 6427]

aarf :

Es ist nen RIESEN Unterschied zwischen Sparring und Vollkontakt.

Ich kann dir sagen was man sich dabei denkt:

Bei so einem Kampf gibt es kein Versagen, du tust dein Bestes, du bist in einer sehr unangenehmen Situation und dein Gegner, ob du ihn kennst oder nicht will genauso gewinnen wie du. Er schlägt auf dich ein, auch wenn er dich 15 Minuten später umarmen könnte. Du fühlst adrenalin, Angst, und Verletzungsgefahr.

Du spürst deine inneren Instinkte zum ersten Mal, das was du im Training gelernt hast, ist auf einmal fast weg, du musst es wiederholen, du musst tun, du musst handeln, und deinen Mann stehen und jeder Fehler wird bestraft.

Dass ist die Situation eines Vollkontaktkampfes, und wenn du so etwas einmal erlebt hast, dann weisst du, in welche Richtung es führen kann.

Kämpft Vollkontakt im RING, nciht auf der Strasse. Vor 50 Jahren gab es Ehre auf den Strassen, bist du zu Boden gegangen, hattest du verloren, und dcein Gegner hat dir vielleicht sogar aufgeholfen, du hattest verloren und dich unterzuordnen bis du gewinnst.

Gehst du heute zu Boden, kommen 5 paar Füsse und zertrümmern deine Rippen, Ehre gibt es nicht mehr, bist du auf der Strasse in eine Schlägerei verwickelt, lauf weg oder sei bereit dein Leben zu geben, es passiert oft genug, auch auf Deutschlands Strassen.

www.arn3.de/temp/frank.avi <-- mein letzter Vollkontaktfight in Thailand gegen einen stark überlegenen Gegner, habe viel dadurch lernen können.

Alles in allem ist 4 guter Advice aber outdated, heute ist der Ring weitaus sicherer mit der gleichen Erfahrung.