Night out: Anti-Sarging Melde Dich an, um diesen Inhalt zu abonnieren 0

[Professeur de Magie 0]

Well, after having been struck with with the immovable block of guilt sarging two weeks into my "training", I've decided to just call up the guys and have a "boys night out" and just get drunk and have a good time. And a good time I had.

Since the perspective of the night was entirely focused on maximizing fun, I didn't even bother building any social proves in the club, and didn't care if nobody knew me. I was there to party, and party I did. Ironic thing was, even though I wasn't sarging, everybody around me still ended up getting opened. This I found particularly interesting because while I made no verbal approach to open people, I still carried my usual body language. Walking straight, no obstruction of body parts, patting people on the shoulders...etc and much to my surprise, I'm getting the same effect as if I were to simply walk up and start opening people. A group of 5 Russian girls that I opened on the streets on Wednesday literally CHASED me down on the dance floor because I didn't even recognize her after making eye contact , and after less than 2 minutes of dancing they isolated us to the lounge. 2 fuck invites were handed out, one to my Hungarian buddy who's damn good looking, and one to yours truly (but the girls weren't that attractive IMO and my buddy had a girlfriend), so we ditched the girls, grabbed another beer, and started walking again.

Walked passed a group of what turned out to be Canadian girls, locked eyes with the one with a really nice rack(HBnicerack). She smiles, and opens me commenting on my hat. I stop for a couple words and walks on into another room, only to find that my buddies didn't follow. Went back to check on them and they were all talking to the Canadian girls. Started negging both girls, but wasn't into either. HBnicerack started playing with her tits, I called her out on it, she tries to explain how someone was giving her a hug a while back and burnt her with his cigarette, and tried show me where the mark was (there was no fucking mark, but it was niiice). 3 more girls that the Canadian girls came with joins us, we talk for a bit, and I moved the guys out because the purpose of the night was not to talk to strangers but to have a good time. More alcohol follows.

Walked back on the dance floor, notices a group of 5 blonds dancing together. Didn't feel like talking to them but I wanted to see if they were hot, so I grabbed my Hungarian buddy and moved in with him to the group. They weren't hot (under 8's), but wanted us to dance with them, which, obviously, we didn't. Made another round around the dance floor, notices a gorgeous blond sitting there with a swarm of guys around her. Guys were literally sticking to her like flies on shit. I couldn't resist the urge because I smelled a blatant bitch shield coming, so I actually walked up and started talking to her (I know, I know...) she turned out to be a really sweet girl that frequents the classier venues of Munich, and indeed, she gets hit on by guys nonstop. Kinoed a bit, talked to all the guys around her, apparently she was there with her hot shot soccer player of a boyfriend, who was sitting next to her the entire time while I was chatting up this girl, but turned out to be a really cool guy too. Didn't see a purpose trying to make a poll so I wished them a pleasant evening and exited. More boozing.

At one point, I lost the boys so as I'm walking around looking for them, I spot a swiss girl(HBwink) sitting there by herself looking bored that was a part of the Canadian crew. I went up to bust her a little for being anti-social, she asks me if I want to get out of there, followed by the most atrocious, and un-natural wink. I told her no, I'm looking for my buddies. She doesn't give up. She then asks me if I want to take a walk to somewhere quiet then, followed by, again, the most atrocious wink. At this point, I could barely stop myself from laughing, so I decided to play along and told her I've been walking around and I need to rest my tired little Asian feet. She STILL doesn't give up. Asks me if I want to check out her apartment, it's "near by" has booze, nice bed... followed by, nope this time no wink, she simply grabbed my hand and got up (Hellllo predator?), since I wasn't going to allow anyone, not even some swiss girl looking to get laid control the social interaction I'm in, I decided to fight back. I started leading her around the venue (8 seasons) as if I'm going to lead her out, but in the most round about ways away from every entrance until I found my buddies, tried to unload her on one of my friends, and moved on with the rest.

Summary: After opening roughly around 20 girls throughout the course of the evening, I realize that only a small portion of sarging is attributed to actually talking. I would even go as far as to say that 80% of your success is attributed to body language, and even without going up to talk to girls, girls will still open you. All evening, I've been going about, hanging out with my buddies, and if I spot a hot girl, I'll simply lock eyes, and 90% of them would smile, and about 50% of those would open me. The way I do it, is that I've calibrated an expression of mild entertainment. It's almost like a smirk except much more subtle, so the girl can't exactly tell that you're smiling, but it leads them to smile and creates interest for you. That's why without actively approaching, I still opened almost as many sets as I would sarging. Since now that it is pretty transparent that it is not my knowledge in the seduction realm that generates attraction, but ME as a person through body language and personality, what guilt I've acquired in the past week has all but dissipated. This night has probably been the most productive night yet. I've calibrated my "BL:smile opener" with 50% chance hook and they open me, and I've learned that I don't even need to walk up to talk to girls in order to be surrounded by girls. Sweet!

[Bidyah 0]

What the hell do you do in Munich?

Haha the wink part was hillarious... yea, I never make it a priority of picking up, foremost having fun, but don't get me wrong fun = pick up / chicks ... anyway *Wink wink*

I suppose you have a small asian ... foot ? :P

So was this unsocial Canadian like a 6 or what? Sarging has so many important aspects saying 80%... I dunno BL is definetly important, but there's a lot to it (I could go on forever on this but no need in the fr forum).

Sounds like a small club or not really packed club... cause the ones in Bremen are like so fucking packed and dark, lol... I would wait long until our eyes would meet.

50%, so 10 girls opened you? Unless you look like the asian version of brad pitt it is hard to believe...

peace

[Professeur de Magie 0]

Take a weekend trip down to Munich and sarge with me =) While I wouldn't say I'm an asian version of Brad Pitt, most would consider me good looking. But what I got going for me isn't even outright looks, I'm interesting as hell

[Bidyah 0]

Like the Aussie says from RSD it is important to be the party of your life... totally my philosophy what's sarging good for anyways if i didn't have fun. But i suppose it is possible they'd open you, but still 10 girls... i guess the munich chicks are easier, haha!

I was down there 1 aug. for business. I'll return next year in case you are there :) ... I'm going back to va this thurs.

[Max!M 0]

Haha munich chicks aren't easyer. They are actualy the hardest targets in Germany...

[Professeur de Magie 0]

but they are very friendly if you enter the set framing yourself above them and anchoring yourself as the prize