storyteller

First of all, being a social robot is cool. I like being a social robot. It's fun. So FUCK Y'ALL. Second, chances are if you're reading this site, your game ain't that great. And if your game ain't that great, the missing piece AIN'T LIFESTYLE. The missing piece is GAME. You think you need some ELABORATE LIFESTYLE to PULL A CHICK?! LOL.. This shit isn't entertaining the Queen.. Cummon! Newsflash: I lived in a congested CLOSET with a single mattress in it for a year, and got laid more than anyone at Project Hollywood for the duration of the time I was there (unless you count not going out and having sex with the same girl over and over as getting laid, in which case I did pretty bad.) And before that - I travelled for a year sleeping on the floors of hotel rooms that I usually shared with six or eight guys. And you want to know what I did then? I pulled girls from clubs back to the hotel bathroom (while they asked - "What are all these guys doing in here?!") and turned on the shower to cover up the noise and turned the lights off so they would forget they were hooking up with a guy they just met in a BATHROOM! Every day I read these guys saying that their missing piece is lifestyle. SHUT THE FUCK UP!! The missing piece is YOU SUCK.. Guys might clown me for living shitty for a year to save money while I built a business and a skillset. Well, I don't blame them. Because they aren't where I'm at right now, and they probably never will be. They know they're not getting to the level I'm at because they aren't willing to give up the comforts that I was willing to give up in order to get there. So they'd might as well find fault in SOMETHING. I remember living at Project Hollywood, and guys would talk to me about LIFESTYLE like "Why do you go out so much?" or "Why not get a girlfriend?" or "Why hang out with PUAs and not girls?" Like, as if getting an LTR or female friends was some kind of accomplishment or rocket science that I didn't have since I was nineteen. Most of them sat around the house watching movies or playing video games or sniffing whip-its, or just chilling with the same girl every single day. Apparently they had big things on the go, I don't know. I mean really, I don't know. I didn't see anything come out of it, but it's very possible that they did. I just knew one thing: I had MY OWN reasons for being there in the first place, and I wasn't going to let peer pressure from guys who had changed up their plans at the half way mark distract me from following through with the goals that I'd set for myself (to actualize my potential, by developing the social skills I was capable of). In the case of Pro Ho, I was paying more than I could afford to live in West Hollywood, and I'd made the commitment BEFORE I'd moved in that if I was going to stretch myself like that then I would work on my skillset EVERY DAY. Here's why: I knew I was paying THROUGH THE NOSE to live in an overpriced house in West Hollywood, two minutes away from the bars. If I want to do something OTHER than sarge girls in West Hollywood venues, then I'll do it somewhere CHEAPER. Sure, I met great girls to be in LTRs with (at the end of the lease, I picked my favourite one and we're still together.) But at that point my outlook was, "I have the rest of my life to be in an LTR and hang out with NON-community friends, whereas I've got 12 months to live with PUA wingmen right beside the hottest clubs in West Hollywood." Now don't get it confused - lifestyle is the shizzznet. The epiphany that lifestyle is more efficient than sarging (IF your game is already tight) is spot on. Whoever came up with that one was a smart dude (Wait, wasn't I one of the first dudes to start spreading that out of common sense?! I forgot!) When you roll out and you've got people coming up on you giving you props and a circle of cool guy and girlfriends to draw new girls into that's GREAT. But guys have the ORDER of how this goes down TWISTED. When I roll out, I'm not running up on girls like "pump, pump, pump, number" and jumping to the next girl like a monkey swinging off of branches. I'm in the club to have a good time, and I'm meeting all sorts of people. I've got all that lifestyle shit on lock automatically. Is this shit so complicated as to even need whole posts on it?! I have more female friends that I could ever keep track of from all the sarges I did that didn't result in sex. And I've got guy friends as well since making friends with guys is automatic because of commonalities. I know more people in any club in Los Angeles than a lot of famous socialites do. I could write a book on LIFESTYLE. But I never made a CONCIOUS EFFORT do implement it, other than to be a cool guy and go out and get to know people and going with the flow. Why was I able to do this? BECAUSE OF GAME. If you're a CHODE and you're rolling out trying to build this lifestyle, people don't take it seriously. Nobody wants to hang with chodes, no matter what their lifestyle is. They might use them to get into a party, but they're not HANGING with them. So that wasn't my approach. I built lifestyle AUTOMATICALLY and PROACTIVELY through the game. It was simple, once I had the base of social skills. And you know what's cool about it? When I talk to people and they want to hang out, it's because of ME and MY SOCIAL SKILLS.. Not some lifestyle I built to make people want to use me for connections. I might build these connections NATURALLY, but it's on top of what I've already got.. I'm definitely not going to be one of those guys who can't travel to a different city or country and can't get meet girls because my crew isn't on hand. That whole philosophy is BACKWARDS LOOKING. It's REGRESSIVE. I read these posts by guys who I've met personally and who I know aren't the types to be cool or to have people wanting to hang with them, and they're telling me that they're building lifestyle and inner game. I'm thinking to myself "If you had the social skills, then the lifestyle would COME TO YOU.. And your inner game would be good because you'd offer a good energy to people and have something real to feel good about rather than doing incantations and deluding yourself that you're the prize when you have nothing to back it up.." So what was my reasoning for being a champion social robot and going full out at this game shit for three years? Simple. I had a plan, and I carried it through. The way I see it, if I'm going to make a plan and I can't stick to it, then I can't assume that I'm going to stick to ANYTHING. So I follow through with the shit, and when it's done I move onto something else. Guys asked me all the time why I came back to college to study useless literature and philosophy when my career is already built. Why? Because back in the day I made a plan to GRADUATE COLLEGE. So I'm coming back to carry out that plan. Most of the guys at Pro Ho said they were going to go out every night when they moved in. But when it came down to doing it, most of them were too busy having epiphanies about how the game was evil and they needed to broaden their horizons. And they'd see me going out every night, and they'd talk up all sorts of shit (never to my face, where they were always SUPER cool and friendly to me, but when I wasn't around or in spiteful books) "He's a SOCIAL ROBOT!! He needs to find validation FROM WITHIN!!" I'd see this going on, and inside I'd be thinking - "Look, I go out to meet girls and have a good time, and to develop my social skills to a point the level I know I'm capable of. If YOU were going out to fill some internal void, there's no need to PROJECT that shit outwardly onto the rest of us. Sorry if you don't like to bang hot chicks anymore, but the game isn't played at the lowest common denominator like that. Guys who enjoy it should be able to talk about it without those kind of projections being put onto them." When I came into this game, like MANY GUYS I made the decision to dedicate a few years to it and reaching a certain skill level. The difference was just that I stuck to it, even past the point where I HAD to out of neediness and it was actually for fun. I mean, the game is a GOOD THING. It's not a fucking FAD. You can make a FAD of "direct" or "indirect" or "attract" and "rapport." But you can't say that the ENTIRE GAME is a FAD. This shit has improved my life on so many levels. And there's other guys for whom it SAVED THEM from becoming introverted haters for the rest of their lives. If YOU want these skills, don't let these rash of posts about lifestyle and balance hold you back. Especially since this whole EITHER/OR thing doesn't even make sense. You can develop them BOTH at the same time. At this point I have the lifestyle and the balance AND the game. I just went after it IN A NATURAL ORDER and ONE PIECE AT A TIME. So do what you want to do. Take feedback, but in the end don't worry what other people will say. A lot of people dissed me for my choices. They felt fit to be CRITICS of what I'm doing, and to make an occupation of making subjective judgements on my decisions and doing what was right for ME at the time. And if I'd listened to them, I guess I wouldn't be getting dissed. But then, where would I be? I'd be where somebody ELSE thought I should be, not where I wanted to be MYSELF. So I guess what I'm trying to say is to think about that, and to do what's best for you.

What up motherfucker? Guess who ALSO has a Hawaii necklace in Germany's national colors? Damn right, ME you CHODE!!! Dont go around stealing my ideas you fuckin pussy or I'll come to Bavaria and make Michael Jackson fuckin rape you. Ohh... and guess who invented the flower girl opener? It was my grandma while Nimrod tried to sarge her last month. You are a pervert dude... just like TheTruth. Remember the one time you two tried to seduce me while I was driving the car on the way to the club.. ahh dont get me started you FREAKS!

I have been using the following opener with great success over the last 2 weeks. --- PUA: Hey girls.. do you know what offside is? You know, the world cup is coming up and I HAVE to know what is before the tournament starts. You will usually get one of the following two answers: - #1 - HBs: Uhh.. how are we supposed to know stuff like that? We are girls! PUA: (shake your head and start talking to someone else standing nearby) Hey, these girls (point at them) are soooo lame, they dont know what offside is. Can YOU explain it to us? - #2 - HBs: (try to explain it) PUA: (after they finish explaining to you what offside is, turn to someone else standing nearby) Hey, do you know what offside is? These girls just tried to explain it to me.. but I dont trust them yet, so we have to back it up with your explanation. This opener is also great cause it's really easy to transition into a NORMAL conversation, which is something most guys have problems with. After the opener I usually say: "So who's your favorite team girls? Do you like Brazil? Yeah? Ronaldinho ? The guy with the crooked teeth! You love guys like that dont you?" (if they respond with "No", bust on their balls for being superficial and ask them "Are looks all you care about? It's about what's inside a person, the personality.. dont you agree?" Do this PLAYFUL.. otherwise you will come off as GAY!) or "So you gonna watch the games? Yeah, wow. Doesnt surprise me. You are like all women arent you? You arent really interested in soccer, you just wanna stare at the guys' asses cause they are wearing these tight shorts. Dont try to bullshit me, I got you all figured out girls! You are perverts. You suck!" --- Why does this opener work? It totally catches women off guard and initially introduces playfulness into the set, which is KEY. The chicks usually get all giggly and dont know what to say since they have NO idea what offside is. Remember, bust on their balls hardcore for not being able to explain to you what offside is and not being interested in soccer but still watching the games cause the players turn them on so much. Enjoy! PS: Germany will win the World Cup. Accept it! -Storyteller www.personaldatingadvice.com

Tyler ist ja auch der Einzige von allen Ex Project Hollywood Kollegen der noch gut über alle anderen spricht. Über Style und Mystery hat er nur gutes zu erzählen.. anders rum ist es das genaue Gegenteil. Wenn ihr alles glaubt was euch Mystery und Style erzählen dann tut das, ich mache es nicht, The Game z.B. ist doch sowieso nur ein guter Roman in dem mehr als ihr denkt dazu erfunden oder verschönert wurde und krasser dargestellt wurde als es überhaupt war. Außerdem muss man bedenken das Neil Autor ist, und dass er sich mit seinen Texten besser verkaufen kann als er überhaupt ist, sollte doch wohl offensichtlich sein. Das Problem was TD und RSD haben ist dass sie Franchise Firmen in der ganzen Welt aufgemacht haben und dort teilweise Instructor rumtanzen die natürlich nicht ansatzweise das Niveu von Tyler haben... und dass dann negative Reviews manchmal ins Haus flattern ist nicht verwunderlich. Und was Thundercat angeht... lest euch einfach seinen Blog durch, so viel Bitterkeit und Negativität habe ich bei noch niemand anderem in der Community gesehen!

Ich kriege von TheTruth auch immer zu hören dass ich irgendwie ein NATURAL ASSHOLE bin. ACHTUNG: D.h er ist attracted :wacko: .. und ich fühle mich Tyler tausendmal mehr verbunden als Style, Mystery oder irgendjemand anderem in der Community. Er ist wenigstens authentisch!! Wenn ich mir durchlese mit was für einem Scheiß er zurecht kommen muss, zB Newbies die ihn treffen und direkt denken dass er sie amogt nur wenn er substile Dinge macht wie seine Beine ausstrecken oder keine Zeit hat sich lange mit ihnen zu unterhalten, dann weiss ich wodrüber der Junge redet. Genau denselben Mist muss ich mir auch anhören, aber ich denke das ist Teil des Preises den man zahlt wenn man einen bestimmten "Namen" in der Community hat. Alle Leute wollen etwas von dir, jeder will mit dir Rapport aufbauen und wenn du nicht in totaler AFC Manier freundlich bist, dann bist du sofort der arrogante PUA der versucht andere zu amogen! Aber damit kann ich leben...

Genau, aber mit ihrer alten Persönlichkeit haben Newbies keinen Erfolg bei Frauen. Deshalb müssen sie ihr Verhalten ändern bzw. es steht ihnen frei dies zu tun. Am Anfang haben sie extreme Probleme mit der Kongruenz, warum? Weil sie sich komplett anders verhalten als vorher. Aber wie soll sich ein Newbie denn ändern wenn er sich nicht ändert? Er muss ab einem bestimmten Punkt das komplette Gegenteil von dem tun was er bis jetzt gemacht hat, und dass dies in den ersten Monaten nicht kongruent ist, ist völlig normal! Aber wie ist der PUG zu seinem "hohen Status" gekommen? Durch adaptieren von erfolgreichen Verhaltensmustern. Und um dort auch hinzukommen muss der rAFC dies auch tun. PUGs waren auch irgendwann rAFCs und hatten nicht automatischen einen "hohen Status". Daher ist deine Analyse vernichtet. Oder wird ein PUG geboren und muss nicht auch an einem bestimmten Punkt erstaml "so tun als ob" bis er automatisch hohen Status hat? Wie beim vorrigen Beispiel. Entwicklung einer neuen Persönlichkeit stellt voraus dass man sich von seiner alten Persönlichkeit entfernt und eine neue entwickelt. Und dies geht nur dadurch dass man am Anfang nicht kongruent ist. Wie willst du denn etwas neues entwickeln und es sofort beherrschen (=kongruent sein)? Es geht nicht. Am Anfang jeden Prozesses steht immer eine Lernphase in der du erstmal kongruent werden musst. Das zu umgehen ist nicht möglich! Auch nicht bei Persönlichkeitsentwicklung. Du redest hier von Naturals. Diese wenden Pickup unbewusst an. Aber warum? Weil sie von jungem Alter an (12, 13, 14) mit schönen Frauen umgeben waren und ihre Persönlichkeit und "Techniken" von alleine entwickelt haben. Aber ein Pickup Newbie hat diesen Background nicht. Er hat eine unsichere Persönlichkeit und muss durch Adaptieren von bestimmten Verhaltensmustern lernen wie sich ein PUA oder "Mensch mit hohem Status" verhalten soll. Du kannst nicht einfach sagen "Entwickel eine coole Persönlichkeit und dann wendest du Pickup von alleine an", dass ist als wenn du sagst "Du brauchst kein Pickup, du musst einfach nur du selbst sein"... und wir alle wissen dass das nicht stimmt, jedenfalls nicht wenn man einen bestimmten Erfolg in diesem Game haben will. Auf gut Deutsche: "Werde cool und dann läuft das von alleine". Das ist Käse. BULLSHIT! Schonmal was von Inner Game gehört? Es liegt an jedem Newbie selber WIE er Dinge lernt und wenn er sich mit der Materie beschäfitgen wird, dann wird er merken dass es zwei Dinge gibt: Inner + Outer Game. Inner Game sollte als Grundlage dienen und die meisten Leute in der Community haben diesen Punkt auch verstanden. Nur wie soll man sein Inner Game bzw. seine coole Persönlichkeit demonstrieren wenn man kein Outer Game hat????????????????????????????????? Beantworte mir diese Frage und dann gebe ich dir zu 100% Recht. Aber es sieht leider anders aus: Inner + Outer Game. Ohne Outer Game läuft nichts. Und du sagst dass man nur Inner Game braucht, eine coole Persönlichkeit aufbauen muss und dann man einfach open kann und es laufen wird. Das ist aber Bullshit. Ich werde das ganze auch nochmal ausführlicher beschreiben in einem Text in dem ich im Moment am arbeiten bin "Beyond The Game". Nur so viel... Strukturen werden immer da sein, egal ob du Natural oder Canned fährst. Auch Naturals haben ihre Strukturen und Routinen. Darüberhinaus wirst du nie alleine mit Personality und Lifestyle gelayed werden. Du musst es demonstrieren und KOMMUNIZIEREN können, ansonsten nützten dir diese Dinge herzlich wenig. Der Rest deines Textes bringt keine neuen Themen mehr auf, deshalb spare ich mir das zu kommentieren. Wir habens uns doch mal in der Roonburg getroffen, oder? Du bist doch der kleine Bruder von Ivary. Wenn ja.. dann halt dich bitte mit Texten wie diesem hier zurück. Du bist absoluter Newbie und seid 3 Monaten dabei und kannst nicht daherkommen und mit deiner minimalen Erfahrung alles in Frage stellen was seid über einem Jahrzehnt enwtickelt wurde. Wenn das stimmen würde was in deinem Text steht dann bräuchte ich meinen Workshop-Studenten nur sagen "Wisst ihr was, Pickup ist bescheuert, ihr müsst einfach nur rübergehen und demonstrieren wie cool ihr seid". Wie viele meiner Schüler werden das umsetzen können? Niemand. Denn wenn sie es könnten wären sie ihr ganzes Leben lang "Naturals" gewesen. Sei froh dass du den Text hier nicht auf ASF gepostet hast... die hätten dich dort auseinander genommen und in Einzelteilnen nach Hause geschickt. :wacko: Trotzdem gut dass du dir Gedanken machst. Aber nächste Mal bitte nicht so ein Größenwahn...

Es ist doch ganz normales Scarcity Marketing. Man preist ein Produkt an und gibt ihm Wert dadurch dass man es als "extrem rar und limitiert" vermarktet. So lange man Qualität anbietet und keine Menschen abzockt ist alles legitim! Leben und leben lassen. Ich finde wir Deutschen sollten uns lieber um unsere eigenen Unternehmen kümmern und selber etwas aufbauen anstatt dauernd zu nörgeln mit was für bösen Marketing Konzepten andere Leute reich werden. Das ist in unserem Land Sitte und deshalb stehen wir vielen Ländern auch in vielen Dingen nach. Wir machen ja sogar unsere eigene Nationalmannschaft kurz vor der WM fertig, das würde es in anderen Ländern nicht geben. Die meisten Deutschen sind endlose Nörgler, beschweren sich immer und sobald der Nachbar ein größeres Auto fährt ist sofort der Neid da. Ich sage nicht dass es in anderen Ländern extrem besser ist, aber so schlimm wie bei uns habe ich es in noch in keinem Land erlebt. So.. und wir werden trotzdem Weltmeister :wacko:

Yes... but please dont TRY to use Hypnosis on me again while I am driving the fuckin car... you fuckin CHODES. Black circle for life!

Das würde ich auch gerne wissen. Wenn so ein profiliertes Mitglied solche Zweifel kriegt, ist das extrem interessant. Es hat nichts mit Zweiflen zu tun, es hat damit zu tun alles auf einer viel höheren Ebene zu verstehen. Auf einer Ebene wo du hinkommst wenn du alles technische aus dem FF kannst und irgendwann sagen kannst "Ok, ich habe dieses ganze Hintergrundwissen mit Routinen, Techniken und diversen Methoden aber ich bin nicht mehr drauf angewiesen". Wenn du dort ankommst bist du PUN (Pickup Natural)... und dann ist es scheißegal was irgendwelche Gurus sagen, dann machst du deine eigenen Regeln und hast trotzdem noch Erfolg! Aber mehr dazu wenn mein Text fertig ist.

Ich habe heute Abend ein Telefon-Interview mit Stephane von Ideagasms geführt und werde es demnächst an alle meine Newsletter Abonnenten rausschicken. Wir haben eine Stunde lang über Gott und die Welt geredet, aber natürlich auch über "Pickup". Außerdem hat mir Stephane Einsichten in die Welt der Pickup Gurus gegeben und von seinen negativen Erfahrungen mit Formhandle und Co beim letztjährigen "Cliff's List Seminar" erzählt, was sehr sehr sehr interessant war! Vor allem da er ja auf dem ASF Board förmlich gehasst wird und ich jetzt weiß warum. Ist erstaunlich wie manipulativ die Pickup Community ist! Ihr könnt euch hier für meinen Newsletter registrieren damit ich euch dieses wunderbare Interview auch zuschicken kann. Nachdem ich die besten Teile der Unterhaltung zusammengeschnitten habe sende ich es raus! Gruß, Storyteller

Ich bin noch nicht durch mit dem lesen, aber habe hier direkt eine Frage sonst vergesse ich es wieder. Was machst du denn wenn du dort stehst? Böse um dich gucken oder wie läuft das ab, auch dass mit dem Awarnes radios versteh ich nicht. Ist das irgendwo erklärt? story, kannst du bitte meine Frage beantworten :) würde mich echt interessieren Vergiss am besten den ganzen Post und LR. Brauchst du alles nicht. Wenn du small AR spielen musst um Frauen zu kriegen bist du ein Loser, realisiere ich gerade auch erst. Ich war die ganze Zeit nur zu vollgepumpt mit dem Cult der Pickup Gurus. Geh einfach hin und sag "Hey, was geht ab?" und wenn die Frau nicht mit dir reden will, fuck her.. du brauchst keine Routinen, Opener oder so einen Müll. Sei einfach nur du selbst, so gut du es sein kannst.

Genau Sven.. so sieht's aus.. mein "Game" ist gerade auf einer 180° Wende und das mit den Bitch Shields gehört auch dazu. Du musst in andere Clubs gehen. Vergiss dir Clubs an den Ringen, Fifi, Nachtflug, Diamonds.. dort hängen zu 80% verdammt unsichere Frauen herum die mental total abgefuckt sind, daher auch ihre Bitchshields. Geh in die Studentenclubs, auf die Strasse, in den Park und andere Plätze wo du WIRKLICHE HIGH QUALITY FRAUEN triffst. Frauen die ihr Leben geregelt haben sind nicht unsicher und brauchen daher keine Bitch Shields. Vergiss die pikfeinen Clubs. Ja.. dort gibt es MEHR hübsche Frauen als in den anderen Locations, aber meistens ist das eh nur das Makeup. Lieber eine herzensgute Frau die sich nicht total auftakelt, als eine totale Tussi die sowieso nur deinen Schwanz blasen will weil sie Low Self-Esteem hat und deine validation braucht... Dazu gibt es aber noch einen Text demnächst von mir "Beyond The Game: Coming Full Circle". Morgen oder so online... fuck the game, forget the rules. Das meiste was uns Mystery und Konsorten erzählt haben ist BULLSHIT!!! Das sind genauso wie die Frauen mit Bitch Shields unsichere Idioten die ihr Leben nicht geregelt kriegen und sich hinter ihrem einstudierten Material verstecken müssen!

Mal im Ernst, dich wird niemand wegen einer Sonnenbrille auslachen, wenn das der Fall ist bist du unkongruent (mit deinem "Outfit") und musst an deiner Person noch arbeiten. Wenn mich ein AFC im Club mit meiner Sonnenbrille belächelt, denke ich mir nur "I get laid! What about you?". Denn am Ende der Nacht gehe ich aus dem Club mit #s, KCs und sogar einem HB wenn das mein Ziel ist. Aber unser AFC liegt dann zu Hause in seinem Bettchen und denkt beim wixxen an alle HBs die heute Nacht meine Sonnenbrille aufhatten! So.... interessiert euch jetzt noch was andere Leute über euch denken?

Habe keine Schule bzw. spezielle Literatur, es gibt sowieso nicht indirect und direct, dass ist ein Fehler den viele in der Community machen und ich den Leuten bei meinen Workshops erst mal wieder ausreden muss. Man shiftet immer zwischen direct und indirect. Mystery sagt z.B. über sich selber dass er indirect ist, aber wenn er 100% indirect wäre würde er nie gelayed werden. Sein Kiss Test "Do you wanna kiss me?" ist 100% direct. Man muss immer wechseln zwischen indirect und direct um Spannung aufrecht zu erhalten (in dem Fall Wechsel von indirect zu direct) oder zu erreichen dass sich die Frau nicht zu unwohl fühlt (dann Wechsel von direct zu indirect). Ich schreibe dadrüber aber nochmal einen eigenen Post wenn ich Zeit habe. Einfach machen, es muss natürlich zur Situation passen und absolut congruent rüberkommen. Was die männlichen AFCs im Club sagen ist sekundär. Wir haben z.B. am Samstag uns wieder klargemacht bevor wir in den Club gegangen sind dass 90% der Typen dort drinne absolut KEINE Konkurrenz sind, und wenn du DAS weisst ist dir auch egal was irgendwelche anderen Leute über dich denken. Denn wer von euch Pussy kriegt ist doch wohl klar.. DU, der PUA!

Went to this big house club last night with my wings DonJoergen and TheTruth. We enter the venue and make our way straight to the dancefloor. I do my usual "I'm too cool to dance" pose and screen the venue as much as I can without having a huge AR (=That's "Awareness Radius", for all the newbies out there). I lately usually do this around the middle of each night, and go in the middle of the dancefloor and just keep standing there, doing nothing, just watching my wings or other people dance. IOIs, AIs, or girls rubbing their ass against mine waiting to get opened, usually follow within one or two minutes. But this time we are standing at the side of the dancefloor and all of the sudden this dude moves towards me and starts to touch me. I back off and communicate very clearly with my reaction "DO NOT FUCKIN TOUCH ME!", but he does it again... Me and one of my wings eventually leave the dance floor to get rid off the faggot cause I aint wearing a pink suit like jlaix. I hate gays hitting on me! We go to the bar to get ourselves some drinks and I decide at some point to try out my own version of RZJ's Rockstar Asshole Method. I've been doing this kind of stuff unconsciously for some time now, I'm sure.. but this night I decided to just stand there at the bar, small AR, vibing along to the music, and totally ignoring every chick around me. 5 minutes later..... IOIs, AIs, exploding all around me. I have 4 groups of chicks dancing in front of me and beside me (PROXIMITY!!).. they move closer towards me as time goes on. It just cracked me, and I was just standing there thinking to myself "What a freakshow dude!". I was basically just doing what every AFC dude did who was standing at the bar, but I had this cocky look on my face, ignored everyone apart from my wing and shrinked down my AR as much as I could. It are the little things that matter!!! I literally stood there for 2 fuckin hours, NEVER left the spot.. just to see how this "method" would work for me and it's pure gold. 3 of the 4 original groups of chicks NEVER left, and additional chicks "accidentally" (haha.. SURE) stood next to me every now and then, or were dancing right in front of me, waiting to get opened. HBbigtitts stood to my right for 5 minutes and then made her way to my left, after another 5 minutes she left cause I didnt open her. Why I didnt open? It would've been incongruent. You cant stand there, like the most arrogant guy in the club, ignore every chick around you and then all of the sudden start talking to a HB. I was waiting to get opened, but it didnt happen. I wasn't peacocked and need something chicks can comment on, like a funny shirt "I am a virgin, don't talk to me.. I'm shy" or something, so they can open me. The only thing that was kinda funky about me was my "straw ring". This is money guys... take a straw and put it on one of your fingers in the shape of a real ring.. everytime a chick touches you or comes a little bit too close to you, say "Hey, back off.. I'm married (and point on your straw ring)". They usually crack up laughing. Try it out, it's money! But back to me standing at the bar........ After 2 hours of not getting opened I was getting kinda bored, and this one chick, HBblonde, who has dancing with her friend for the last hours in front of me, left, and sat down somewhere behind me all alone by herself so I could open her. (Am I sure that this was the case? Fuck no, I've no idea. I just have this awesome, fucked up frame, that every chick who dances anywhere near me wants me and wants to get opened by me. That's my reality. And they also want to get fucked by me, but I play hard to get) So I decide to turn around and walk to the other end of the bar to get myself a drink and walk back to my "home base", but on the way I stop next to HBblonde, look at her over my shoulder for like 5 seconds (OHHHH.. i broke the 3sec rule, slap me) and start a conversation. Important is that I am being totally serious with my tonality/what I am saying, none of my usual playful vibe. I have to come off congruent with what I've projected tonight, and set the frame that I'm a fuckin asshole who fucks women. I'm not a nice guy. Woman hit on me all the time, and I'm sick of it.. so let's see if you are at least good in bed before I bend you over. ME: Hey, do you speak english? HBblonde: Yes, a little bit ME: Ok, I've been standing over there at the bar for the whole night and YOU have been staring at me the whole time.. it's really annoying, I just came out tonight to dance and listen to the music (HAHA..). So what's up with that? Are you like stalking me? HBblonde: Nooo, I am not ME: Sure, so who are you? HBblonde: HBblonde.. where are you from? ME: Australia.. why? So you can stalk me? You are kinda weird... HBblonde: No, I won't stalk you ME: RIGHT... you know I've been standing over there all night long and all these chicks have been hitting on me, I bet you also just want sex.. are you at least good in bed? HBblonde: Haha.. why do you wanna know ME: Cause I might consider taking you home... but I am not sure about you.. HBblonde: Oh ok, talk to you later then ME: So, are you as bad in bed as the last 10 German girls I had sex with? Seriously, German women are sooo bad in bed HBblonde: Well, I am not. ME: Haha, that's what they all say.. what about blowjobs, do you give good head? HBblonde: YEAH ME: Ok (lean in, like I am about to kiss her) RESPECT (classic line from Style). You know what I WOULD do to you if I WOULD be alone with you right now? (the would's are important guys, never say I WILL DO XY TO YOU) HBblonde: What? ME: First off all, I'd spank you (take her hand.. spin her around a bit), like this (and spank her not too hard, HBblonde gives instant ddb look) HBblonde: Ouch.. that hurt Now I sit down next to her ME: Yeah, that's what its supposed to... and then I'd kiss you, but wait.. you are probably not a good kisser, are you? HBblonde: I am a very good kisser ME: Are you sure? Let's find out. (I've never pulled off a kiss this directly, but the sexual tension was there, lots of kino and she was begging for it, so I figured why not) ME: Ok... wait... but I wont have sex with you tonight. HBblonde: Why? ME: Cause I only have sex with chicks who give good blowjobs (now I take her hand and put it on my jeans.. you can guess the spot).. HBblonde: give me THE look.. chicks enjoy nothing more than seeing you getting turned on by them PUA: See.. you are getting me all horny and I have to leave now cause you are too sexy. I mean look at you, you are really hot (now I take both of my hands and gently stroke her whole body in one go, from her neck, past her boobs with touching them PUBLICLY, all the way down to her butt) and I'd have to sleep with you, but I cant let that happen.. you just couldnt handle me! I kiss her again and from now on we barely spoke again. Makeout for about 5minutes and then I took her hand and take her to the restroom. She didnt say a single word.. she knew what was up, but as we are about to enter a booth she gives me a shit test and says "are you sure?". I fuckin loved that. I just looked at her, smiled and dragged her into the booth and started making out with her. After about 2 minutes I figured that the men restroom is nasty as hell, piss all over the floor, so we change "locations" and move our little adventure to the women restroom. Clean floor, we start making out again and after a while she proves that she DOES give good BJ's. I will "spare" you with the details. The whole thing went down in 45 minutes, which is at least for me, another "life changing" event. My game has reached yet another level, and I never thought that I could pull off this heavy direct stuff. Why did my Pickup work? - I was 100% congruent with what I projected (cloth-wise, behaviour-wise, etc) - I went straight to the point. Women love to have sex, and if a chick has been lingering around for 2 hours, she wants to fuck you.. otherwise she would've went some other place with her friend. It's that simple. And if you let her know that you know what's up, that you know that all that's on her mind is sex, she'll buy into your frame. I mean, it's even true that she wants to fuck you, you just gotta have the balls to say it out loud, right into her face - Yes, I was PRETTY direct right from the start.. but there was no need for pumping up more attraction, and I strongly believe that it would've come off as incongruent if I would've tried to make her feel attracted to me through routines or any of that stuff. You simply cant do that if you come from the frame that you are a fuckin asshole who takes advantage of women and just uses them for sex. So what I did was I straight went into QUALIFYING her.. even though it was all just sexual stuff. Without my qualification phase I would've not been able to lay her. You GOTTA be a challenge and ascertain very clearly that YOU are the prize and the selector. YOU decide if you gonna have sex with her or not. YOU are the guy EVERY CHICK in the club is after. If you come from that frame, project it 100% congruent, you'll be able to pull this shit off. - I was a challenge and totally fucked with her head. The key line was this one "See.. you are getting me all horny and I have to leave now cause you are too sexy. I mean look at you, you are really hot (now I take both of my hands and gently stroke her whole body in one go, from her neck, past her boobs with touching them PUBLICLY, all the way down to her butt) and I'd have to sleep with you, but I cant let that happen.. you just couldnt handle me!" Just go out and try this, pretend that chicks hit on you all the time and you are just there to "feel the music and dance". Have a small AR, if a chick gives you EC, look at her and then shake your head with disapproval as if she is NOT getting it.. her lame way to pick you up is not working on you. Basically, do everything the really bitchy chicks in the club do. Men hate them, but they are the most attracted to them. Blow chicks off like there's no tomorrow. You can even grab chicks who are standing next to you, and say "Hey, it's sweet that you wanna pick me up, but you have no chance with me.. you just couldnt handle me". The reactions will be phenomenal... IF, you are 100% congruent! Have fun with this!