Nächstes okcupid-Date steht an: Hi there, NY girl! You seem to be very fond of four-letter words. What about this one: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1jRhgNp-fNc Cheers, StefanSent on Oct 22Ha! I have yet to meet a dude who didn't love "The Dude". ;)Sent on Oct 22Well, he is like every man wants to be. He does not give a shit about anything. And most admirably: He does not even give a shit about women, although he seems to be heterosexual. That example is VERY hard to follow :)))Sent on Oct 22Haha! I feel like the older I get, the less of a shit I give about things. I've learned things always have a way of working themselves out. Were you born and bred in Bonn?Sent on Oct 22No, I'm new to this area just like you. I come from Berlin originally. But from the western part, not the eastern one. So I was not raised as a communist. :)))Were you born in NY?Sent on Oct 22Ha! Yes, I was born and raised in NY. I moved here to take a job at the international school. Do you work for a news organization here, or do you freelance?Sent from the OkCupid app Oct 22Oh, by the way, I'm Cristina. ;)Sent from the OkCupid app Oct 22Great, I'm Stefan. No, I don't work for anyone at Bonn. I'm a freelancer indeed, and I am mostly working for a publisher in XXXXXX. What exactly are you working in Bonn?Sent on Oct 22Hi, Stefan. I'm a secondary school counselor at the international school. It's actually past my bedtime, so I'm going to say goodnight now. It was nice chatting with you. Enjoy the rest of your night!Sent from the OkCupid app Oct 22Hey, hope you're having a good day. What kind of articles have you been working on lately? I'm really fascinated by journalism, although coming from the States I've become pretty disillusioned by the media. Hope you can restore my faith! ;)Sent on Oct 23Hi Cristina, no, I cannot restore your faith. :))) I'm a financial journalist writing about the German stock market and I have experienced a lot cases of market price manipulation where stocktraders worked together with journalists who wrote either enthusiastic or slating articles in order to move the stocks in the direction the traders were betting. I'm personally acquainted with people who went to jail for that!Shocking, right? :)Sent on Oct 23Ugh, you're right. Faith not restored. Where in Bonn do you live?Sent from the OkCupid app Oct 23Hi Cristina, actually I don't live in Bonn itself, I live in one of those very little spas south of Bonn on the Rhine. Nobody would know it here on okcupid. :)) I enjoy it since the rents are much cheaper than in Bonn here and I work at home. So I just go to Bonn for shopping and entertainment. Where in Bonn do you live? :)Sent on FridayI live in plittersdorf which is near bad godesberg. It's definitely a lot quieter than what I'm used to, but I really like it. Those spa towns sound great. I've been meaning to check one out. ;)Sent from the OkCupid app SaturdayHave you been to the Ahrtal already? Two spas there (Bad Bodendorf and Bad Neuenahr) and beautiful hiking trails along the river and the beautiful vineyards.Sent on SundayI have not, and I've been really wanting to go. I was in Luxembourg this weekend- such a beautiful city! A friend from New York was in London for business and her trip just got extended, so we're trying to figure out if we can meet somewhere this weekend. We were looking at Paris, but the train is around 200 euro, and I just don't want to pay that much. So now we're looking at Hamburg or Berlin. Thoughts? Have you been to either? How was your weekend?Sent on MondayWhat about meeting up with your friend in Amsterdam?Sent on MondayShe was just there last weekend.Sent on MondayThen I would vote for Hamburg. Berlin is kind of gloomy in autumn, although Hamburg will appear a bit like Amsterdam (at the seaside, water channels in the city, famous red light district).Sent YesterdayThanks for the input. We actually decided we'd schedule a different weekend. We've both been traveling quite a bit, and just need some down time this weekend. If you're going to be in Bonn let me know; we can grab a drink.Sent from the OkCupid app YesterdaySo what about next weekend in Bonn? Spooky Halloween drink maybe? :) I'd like to take some pics at the cemetaries anyway, you could also join me with that. :))Sent YesterdayA drink sounds good...not sure about the cemeteries. ;) Shoot me a text and we can figure it out: 0160 XXXXXXXXSent from the OkCupid app Yesterday