I just want to avoid looking for something that not a single woman in the world can fulfill anyway (top looks, top character, top job, top family, top psyche, no red flags, etc.) and I die lonely and alone. Even if I find my "soulmate" at some point, She must still be in the mood for me. Sure, I have something to offer (above-average looks and income, physically healthy, lots of friends and acquaintances, etc.), but I'm still not Brad Pitt or Leonardo Di Caprio, who can afford a new hot girlfriend every two years to have.