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  1. Hey Antidote and Hoodseam, 1) At first, I would wait ~2 days before replying, but then I read a post by Good Looking Loser, and he advocates sending a text right after meeting them or a few hours after. His reasoning is that they still feel postive things about you right then, so you might as well capitalise on that. So that's what I do now. With that *one* girl I mentioned making out with after the "mini date", I texted her right after meeting, and she responded shortly after. She always responded very quickly. After our "mini date", we spoke on the phone 2-3 times for ~10 minutes. She the one with all the logistical issues; she likes me, but clearly has other priorities. On the date, right before we made out, she told me to come visit her in her town, and then conveniently, in the week I was supposed to come, she forgot her phone at a friend's place, and then in the coming weeks both of us were busy. I still had exams, and she had work, and then she went to travel with her friends. And now I'm back in my home country. I hope we can meet after, as this seemed like a sure thing. We sent a few WhatsApp messages, she sent a picture, and then she stopped responding. So not sure what to make of this. It was just small talk, mind. 2) I'd say I look fine. I'm not jacked or anything, but I work out. I went from "concentration camp skinny" to "normal looking. As in, from 60 kg to 77 kg, and I'm 1.93m. Not ripped by any stretch, but my top 2 abs are visible. Clothing wise, I wear dark blue/indigo jeans, oxford shirts in white/blue, a field jacket, and leather shoes. When it's colder, I layer with a v-neck sweater or cardigan. Next purchases are "work boots" and more sweaters and shirts. And peacocking wise, I think a ring and bracelet are in order. I can't decide on anything though. More objectively, I guess I can talk about Tinder matches? In Oldenburg, I rarely get matches, but that is more due to few people using it. I was in Hamburg for two days, and liked almost every girl I saw on Tinder, and got ~5 matches. Hope that gives you an idea. 3) I usually approach the best looking girls I see. In my experience, the 6-7s usually have bigger bitch shields. The better looking they are, the more open they are to me. Most of the positive reactions I got (i.e, nice interaction, numbers, or make outs) were generally from the better looking girls. 4) That's a valid point. I gamed very regularly between October and January (I'm a student, and will be in Germany for *at least* another 2 years - but I am thinking of doing an erasmus in the Netherlands or Poland), and after that, I guess I burnt out. Back then my screening SUCKED. Now it's gotten much better. I think I will have better results because of this. One other thing is that after not getting any results for so long, I started thinking that maybe I should just slow down, and try a more "nice guy" angle, but all in all, I think both of you are right. I'm wasting my time with that. Might as well screen for girls who are DTF. Again, can either of you recommend some cities/towns I can try to hit up? I think I'm in need of someone who's more experienced than I am to help me out. I live in OL, but I have no problem travelling a hundred kilometres or two away, if it means I can improve my game. Or at the very least, have a fun night out or two. :-) Does the forum here do meet ups? I understand that my poor German is a big obstacle.
  2. Yeah, in my town, I live about fifteen minutes from the city by bike, which while not bad, is not ideal. On a short trip to another city, I'll make sure to get a hostel or something that is close to the clubs. Will work on that. Been playing a bit more with qualification through WhatsApp. Kind of funny how I sort of "lost" the basics with time. Spent so much time reading up on another stuff (especially "manosphere blogs") that you tend to forget the essentials. I am pretty big on "natural" game, but that's no excuse to just be winging it. Thanks for the heads up about Köln. Are there any spots you'd recommend for a weekend trip? Kiel? Wismar? Osnabruck? Dresden? Leipzig? Frankfurt? I dunno!
  3. God, your English is more than just fine. If anything, I really appreciate it that the members were nice enough to respond in English. I think that my basic German limits somewhat, game wise. Aber, wann ich nach Deutschland wieder gehen, wurde ich ein A2 Intensivkurs abschließen. Es wird nicht genug für "gaming", aber hoffentlich es wird genug fur "rapport". Best case scenario, I'm learning German, haha. But I digress. Yeah, I think you're right. That's something I've been working on for a while now. But I gotta say, my day time approaches are not very high energy "fun fun fun". They're usually pretty chill, and I do try to look for signals to attempt build a connection. I guess some girls are just polite and just happy to talk, but not sexually available. ALSO: Are there any cities you think I should hit up that might be easier game-wise (I'll have weekends free in September)? Where maybe the girls are more slutty or open. I heard the east in general was a good spot for this, especially Berlin. But I think that might be a bit too intense for me. So maybe some place smaller, like Leipzig, maybe? I heard Cologne was also a good spot to hit up.
  4. I mostly do day game. I'll approach, we'll talk for some time. I see IOIs. We keep talking. In theory, everything looks fine. I try to instadate. This hasn't happened yet. So I suggest we meet soon. We exchange numbers, and then I never hear from them again. This is where it fails. In night game, I am slightly more aggressive (think RSDJulien/Steve Jabba type stuff). We talk, if things are going well, we make out. Beyond that, what usually happens is they either have friends they can't seem to leave. Or if we exchange numbers, I never hear from them again. I've been told girls in the Oldenburg/Bremen area are more conservative and frigid. They seem very suspcious when I approach in the day time. At least, my rejections have all been very polite, along the lines of "Sorry, but I'm not interested" or "Thank you, but I have a boyfriend", or them just politely excusing themselves. Most day approaches I do end up in a small conversation right after that "suspicion barrier" is passed, and 3 times out 5, I get a number. But as I found out, getting numbers doesn't mean much. Maybe I just need to approach more. I don't know.
  5. I hope English is fine by you. I am studying in Germany, but my German is still very basic. My study course is in English. I've been reading pick up material for quite some time, and started approaching somewhat regularly last year. At least, it started last year, as far as Germany is concerned. I learned most of my game from places like Heartiste, YaReally, Krauser, David X, and Real Social Dynamics. I used to be a regular poster on The Red Pill subreddit, back around the time it started. So the reason for this thread is that I feel that my game is not callibrated for Germany. I get numbers easily, and have gotten a few make outs, but no lays yet. If it means anything, I game in Bremen and some neighboring towns. Most of the girls who do give me their numbers just don't reply at all. I don't just go up and ask for their number. I approach, we talk, and then try to go for an instadate (hasn't happened yet), and if that can't work, I suggest we meet up for coffee/drinks/a walk soon. If they agree, then we exchange numbers, or I take theirs. After that, I usually get nothing. I get the impression that girls get a "player vibe" from me (the irony!) simply because I approached them, and then they don't know what to make of it. It also seems that the girls in the Bremen/OL area are very relationship oriented and kind of conservative, compared to say, your average American girl. Which is not a bad thing, just that it makes direct game inappropriate. All of the girls I made out with, with the exception of one, were girls I pulled out of a club. Those were not many. Three or four, at most. The other one was a girl from another city who had some stuff to do here, and we went on a "mini date". She invited me to come visit her at her place, then we made out, and then not much happened. Too many logistical issues, this likely won't happen, but I'll still try to hit her up again when my schedule opens up. Also, it could also be that not having a smart phone (and therefore, WhatsApp) was a problem. I installed it on my tablet the other day, and tried hitting up some of those numbers that never responded. One did, and she seemed quite into me. I am away on holiday, so nothing I can do about this. So anyway, that's about it. If there are any specific questions you'd like to ask, go ahead. Any advice would be appreciated. Vielen Dank!